In version that do not have information_schema
(older versions, or some ndb's) you can dump the table structure and search the column manually.
mysqldump -h$host -u$user -p$pass --compact --no-data --all-databases > some_file.sql
Now search the column name in some_file.sql
using your preferred text editor, or use some nifty awk scripts.
And a simple sed script to find the column, just replace COLUMN_NAME with your's:
sed -n '/^USE/{h};/^CREATE/{H;x;s/\nCREATE.*\n/\n/;x};/COLUMN_NAME/{x;p};' <some_file.sql USE `DATABASE_NAME`; CREATE TABLE `TABLE_NAME` ( `COLUMN_NAME` varchar(10) NOT NULL,
You can pipe the dump directly in sed but that's trivial.